I stayed in last night while the hubby was out and watched girly shows. I saw that Say Yes to the Dress is now in Atlanta. It’s kind of awesome because you get this extra drama now with bitchy controlling southern mommas and prima donna southern belles.
I also watched the second season of Four Weddings where 4 ladies go to each others’ weddings and judge them. The winner gets a free honeymoon. To me, this is a nightmare. Girls are judgmental enough without being handed score cards. I mean they’re not actually flashing cards during the event, but they are taking strong mental notes.
Watching 3 episodes in a row last night (exciting Friday night I know) has shown me that you can’t please everyone. You should just have a wedding that you (and your husband) love. I mean even among only 4 women, what one thought was gorgeous, another thought was tacky. Some women love to bedazzle everything, others are monogram obsessed, some love color and some wear black wedding dresses. Basically no one is ever going to have your eyes and brain and see your wedding like you do. So here’s my advice to you potential brides out there: don’t worry about what you think you’re supposed to do for a wedding, do what you like! Even if your ring bearer is R2D2 and your groomsmen are Storm Troopers.
Or your wedding dress is made of cream puffs.
Or you prefer making your wedding guests carry your mile long veil through the town.
Even if you recite your wedding vows to each other while repelling down the side of a building – a bit dangerous, but hey it’s your thang.
Do what you love!
